One has to understand what reality is to theirselves and to others.
From one side it’s so good for anyone to be able to create their own reality, but end of the day, we can’t take credit of every aspect of it.
No, we can’t.
Understanding and internalizing that fact is important to navigate socially.
To understand what made people who they appear to us as.
What part of who they are they have actually chosen and what they haven’t.
What is it about, to make the decisions they’ve made, how different it is from our choices.
How easy it was for some of us to stick to certain ideals just because It was, just that, easy.
To comprehend that part of us will always reflect where we came from, the reality of that place and time. Who and what we grew up seeing, how all of those interacted with each other.
I think we have to come to peace with those parts we haven’t chosen and to judge only when we know someone else had actually a choice about what they have ended up having or doing.
Think through, relate and let there be the other.