I am not a believer of intentionality of existence, of fate nor the famous saying “everything happens for a reason”
Life is way too random for any of that to make sense.
Of what I believe in is intent to survive, life in its events, different roads and moments.
I believe we choose the lessons we wish to learn of a past event, we choose how to remember an event or a series of events, a person, a relationship.
If there is evil in this world, regret would be that. That negativity. It doesn’t move you anywhere. peaceful nor comforting, it’s a trap because life is always moving, new data, new people, new places for regret to have any meaningful place.
There is no undo. There is contemplation. There is assessment. There is time to process. Then learning what you think you need to learn. Then there is moving on.
You can rush an orgasim, but you can’t rush a genuine smile.