Monogamy is overly consumed, boring and over simplified.
When you hear that from someone who’s been a serial monogamist, you should pay some attention.
I say that because it’s so heteronormative; that is totally forced into relationships since it’s the acceptable hetrosexual norm.
I don’t want monogamy to be a default that is stamped into any future relationship I may have, if chosen to be practiced then its a personally chosen behavior form both or either party.
Relationships are more complicated but that is what their beauty is all about, not default stamps yet good communication, adapting, learning and listening.